tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6863551749281291607.post4404989859395315712..comments2023-10-24T07:50:11.124-04:00Comments on Confessions of a Dominant Wife: Denial goal falls two days short Ms Kathleenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16100285500447602094noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6863551749281291607.post-85798942339295481922013-04-03T15:51:59.841-04:002013-04-03T15:51:59.841-04:00Well, I don't find so exciting the idea of Jam...Well, I don't find so exciting the idea of James trying to reach an orgasm in a short number of seconds. On the other hand the idea of counting your orgasms wereas he is under chastity sounds good. mmm...More exciting if it includes some of them with other men.<br />I can imagine him licking pussy and ass frustrated and excited. He must enjoy those humiliating moments.<br />Congratulations.Sergeant Salthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10782044179755898082noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6863551749281291607.post-58640322464553593082013-04-02T19:25:45.086-04:002013-04-02T19:25:45.086-04:00Hello Ma`am, I enjoy your site & would like to...Hello Ma`am, I enjoy your site & would like to relate a little about me. I`m a submissive transvestite & only dress in my home. I`d like to go out dressed but my wife won`t allow it. I`ve been a Sissy since age 12 & have been dressing with my wife`s knowledge since 2 years before we married. I`m 50 & have a girlish figure. I have very large nipples & a girlish fanny. Also,according to my wife I have" Legs that most women would kill for".I feel skirts & dresses were meant for feminine types like myself.I feel my place is in the role as a submissive sissy,not a dom male. I`ve been on the receiving end of bare bottom spankings since a young age & it continues to this day. I don`t think I`d be happy without them. I`ve a need to be controlled in my marriage which means orgasms also. I`d never have married someone who didn`t understand that. <br />This past Friday marked 9 wks. without ejaculating.The longest being denied,4 1/2 months.Difference of me & most others being denied is not in chastity device. <br />My wife announced this past Friday that I was in desperate need of a spanking an that it was long overdue. I too... like your hubby was on the verge of ejaculating while being spanked. It was within the first 15 min of a bare hand spanking. I told my wife I was about to cum ...she stopped slapping my bare bottom immediately. She gave me a few minutes to recover...then started with a pine wood paddle. I lost my desire of cumming for a few moments...till I got use to the paddle. When she had me good and warm she switched to a maple paddle. She gave me a sound spanking with the maple till I started to plead with her to please let me have a breather. I was granted 5 min from the paddle while she spanked me with her bare hand. After the brake she took out the ash wood paddle ... which had me crying like a little girl after 20 minutes. My bottom was throbbing when she put it down. She switched back to the pine, then to the maple again. She finished up with a leather paddle,using it for about 30 min. When the paddling was done...I was very sore. I`m not sure how many strokes I received since she didn`t care about counting . I can tell you it was a total of 1 hr. 15 min that my sissy ass got paddled. It was one of the worst I`ve received in a long time. She said I can expect the same the next night. On Saturday night I did get a spanking once again starting with her bare hand & finishing with the leather paddle. She took it easy on me using only the pine out of all the wood paddles she owns. She spent 45 minutes paddling my bare bottom before taking me with her strapon . I did however get paddled again each time I was about to cum... from the reaming she was giving me. I have cum in the past from penetration alone. I spent almost 2 hrs. impaled on the end of her 8 incher. My bottom still feels all the attention it was givin...from the weekend. <br />Anytime I show signs of cumming ... I always lose that urge when she takes out the heavy woods. I was very grateful she didn`t use the Oak or Hickory.<br />In the beginning the longest I could last was 1 week, but today it is months at a time I`m denied. Her next goal will be 6 months which will start at the beginning of June.<br />There is nothing that causes a submissive to feel more inadequate or controlled than denying them an orgasm. What makes me feel totally controlled is the fact that I comply with her wishes of never touching myself unless given permission.....no chastity device necessary. Also, I `m not allowed to cum unless I have something up my ass. She thinks all subs deserve to cum in that manner. I have not ejaculated without her permission in over 5 yrs. Last year I was allowed to cum 5 times...this year only once so far. I guess as time goes on... I will be denied for longer periods. I`m not sure if I will ever be able to hold out for a year. I say this because the last time I came it was from just thinking about sex while she was putting on her strapon. I don`t know if she will ever cuckold me...But I will accept it if she chooses to.<br />FemmHubbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07324344338202924955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6863551749281291607.post-88998018209466880772013-04-02T02:29:29.333-04:002013-04-02T02:29:29.333-04:00Ms Kathleen,
i am sorry to hear that you missed y...Ms Kathleen,<br /><br />i am sorry to hear that you missed your goal by only a couple of days and i sympathise with hubby having had a similar 'accident' or two (though not whilst being caned) in the past. When locked for long enough i am amazed how little direct or indirect stimulus can take one beyond the point of no return. The only consolation being, as also appears to have been the case with hubby, that the end is also not enjoyable - rather very frustratingly disappointing.<br /><br />p<br />xPoppet Subsluthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07950985471145426464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6863551749281291607.post-9253561184197391912013-04-01T14:39:32.915-04:002013-04-01T14:39:32.915-04:00Unless I want to do prostate milkings on him, I fe...Unless I want to do prostate milkings on him, I feel it is wise to allow a man as young as my husband to clean out his plumbing every now and again. I used to allow him an orgasm every two weeks to a month at the longest but since he just demonstrated to me that he can refrain for nearly two months, that is my new goal. <br /><br />If I can get him to the two month threshold, that means he will only receive 6 orgasms per year. That will be the first step to a potential future of permanent denial. <br /><br />I've thought about permanent denial for him when he reaches his retirement years but never was sure about the practicality of it. You have to walk before you can run so getting him to the two month stage will be a big step for us. Ms Kathleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16100285500447602094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6863551749281291607.post-35235660683383518272013-04-01T14:01:22.272-04:002013-04-01T14:01:22.272-04:00Ms Kathleen,
It’s impressive that he can orgasm wi...Ms Kathleen,<br />It’s impressive that he can orgasm without any physical stimulation.<br />Perhaps you should have a bowl of ice at hand next time, if he gets too aroused – so you won’t have to remove his chastity belt.<br />To the best of my knowledge, there are no medical reasons to allow him an orgasm – although I’ve made extensive research on the matter.<br />ritematehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15402954293100394546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6863551749281291607.post-31856591032168684442013-04-01T11:39:20.500-04:002013-04-01T11:39:20.500-04:00Thank you for a very informative post. I've b...Thank you for a very informative post. I've been experimenting with orgasm control on my fiancee with varying levels of success. she's also had orgasms without physical stimulation which has been very frustrating for me. I think it's time to move towards some chastity routine. <br /><br />NicoleAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12587095236281284550noreply@blogger.com