Tuesday, April 3, 2012

More info about the CFNM Party

Ginger sent me some more information about Saturday night’s CFNM party. I thought you might enjoy reading it. I can’t wait!  

Following are the rules the women have set for the party:
All men have to strip totally nude during the dance routine at the beginning of the party. Once nude, they have to remain fully nude until the end of the party. Any man showing up with his girlfriend or wife also have to be completely naked.
The women will remain fully clothed for the entire party with no exceptions.
The guys have to be courteous and respect the women and basically be servants to the women, get them drinks, snacks and tend to their needs.
The girls are encouraged to prick tease the guys mercilessly.
The women are permitted to fondle any part of the mens' bodies at any time.  
Who is invited?  
All attendees must obtain a personal invitation and be on the invite list. Most people use alias names so no identification needs to be shown at the door but you will be required to give us your alias so we can check it against our list. The exception is for women that look to be under 21. We require a minimum age of 21 so if a woman appears as if she does not meet the age requirement, one of our hostesses will check her ID in private but we promise that no names will be recorded.  
We encourage women to bring their girlfriends along but they also must be cleared prior to the party. Bringing your girlfriends will make you feel more comfortable and will make it a much more friendly environment. Women should attend if they enjoy meeting other people and are comfortable in the presence of totally nude men. 
For the benefit of the women, we are a little more selective with the guys focusing on nice (considerate) guys that are somewhat younger with physiques ranging from full-time body builders and athletes to slender physiques. All men must be prescreened and no men will be permitted access at the door unless their names are on our list. For this party, we are only inviting guys between the age of 21 and 40. Men wishing to participate may e-mail us, and must include a full description of themselves including age, height, weight, general occupation and at least two photos of themselves. Nude photos are not necessary; however, at least one should show the entire physique. Note: those that have misrepresented themselves will not be granted entrance to the event. Preference will be given to body builders, athletes and men that are well groomed.
This may sound unfair, but this party is for the benefit of the women. Screening the men also protects the women and maintains a high female-to-male ratio, as our events are designed to have more females than males. You should attend if you are a playful exhibitionist that doesn't mind being fully exposed to numerous women. In addition, for those men that have a fantasy of being a nude male servant catering to a bevy of women, you should find our events much to your liking.
Cost  
This is a non-profit event and we will request donations to cover our costs. We will be renting this estate, and therefore must ask for a small donation. Any excess proceeds after payment of expenses are kept to host the next party. 
FAQs:
Q: Will there be open sex?
A: This is not a "swingers" party, nor is there an agenda for open sexual activity. We intend for all women to be comfortable and happy, and many will be a bit nervous being their first time and not knowing what to expect. But again, the women will set the tone.
Q: OK, interested, but tell me, what is it like? Is it just a bunch of horny naked guys?
A: No, you'd be surprised. First, the majority at our parties have historically been women. Since the guys are at the disadvantage (exposed and vulnerable) some may even be a bit shy. With that said, the goal of many of the women is to tease the guys into an aroused state, and they are quite good at it. So, there will be "horny naked guys" at the party; however, no sex is allowed. Of course, guys and gals do meet and leave the party together, but we never ask them to kiss and tell.
Q: I'm just a girl that enjoys a little voyeurism, and I love the "Haha - I can see you but you can't see me" quality of your parties but I have no desire to pick up a guy or have a sexual encounter. Is this for me or is there another agenda? 
A: The party is designed for girls like you as well as for women that enjoy being more empowered in a social setting - that is, they like the men being naked and vulnerably exposed with women in control. Our parties are designed to cater to both of these themes. But there is another equally as important agenda, and that is for people to have a good time and get to know each other as with any other fun party. Other women come to meet guys and hopefully establish a post-party friendship, which is very possible given we typically come from the same general region.
Q: What do the women wear? 
A: Dressing sexy is definitely welcome, although casual and comfortable dress is the norm. Clothing worn by the women should be no different than what you would wear to a fun party held at a friend’s house. Historically, clothes range from a pretty dress, to pants to jeans to sexy club wear.
Q: Is this legal?
A: This is a private, non-commercial party on private property. The venue will be secluded such that the party cannot be seen from off-site by non-attendees. Consequently, we believe it is a non-issue and there will be no problems. 
Q: Will I be safe and not hassled by the guys?
A: All the females will attest that the guys who have attended our parties have not only been friendly and courteous, some have been downright shy. In addition, the women will outnumber the men. Our goal is to assure that the guys are all nice and understand the theme. All males will be instructed to treat all women like princesses, to get them drinks if requested, and to be polite. And anyone at the party that feels the least bit uncomfortable may leave at any time. We will also have designated males (big guys) to act as bouncers for unwanted guests. Our goal is to make sure you have a good time! 
Q: Can I bring my boyfriend/husband/male roommate? What if he is over the age limit for men?
A: Yes, we welcome couples but he must be on our invite list and he must adhere to all of the rules, and, he must also remain nude for the entire party once the ‘Full Monty’ dance occurs. And a word of caution...you will be parading your significant other naked in front of other women, that may be eyeing him closely, which is what the party is about. Consequently, only bring him if you feel very secure and not prone to jealousy. 
We will make exceptions for a man who exceeds our age limit if, and only if, he attends the party with his wife or girlfriend. But again he must be on our invite list so be sure to contact us prior to the party.
Q: I love flirting with and sexually taunting guys to get them aroused although I may have no desire to have sex or anything. How do you feel about a prick tease like me? 
A: Prick teasing is encouraged and is an integral part of the theme of the party! With the guys being fully exposed, all the girls are afforded the rare opportunity to instantly see the guys' physical reactions to whatever prick teasing technique the girls are bestowing...so you can certainly get in some quality practice!
Q: Is this a female-dominance/bdsm party, or, is it something else?
A: This is not the traditional femdom/slave environment wherein men are subjected to humiliation and forced into obedience. Femdoms have come to our parties and enjoy it, as do feminists that enjoy the empowerment of women over men wherein the men undress for the pleasure of the women with the men not being afforded the same in return. The men coming all must pledge to be respectful, and polite to the women, and most importantly, they understand that at our parties the women's pleasure and enjoyment are placed first, even if (and especially if) it is at the expense of the men's embarrassment or awkward feelings.
Q: Will the guys be getting erections? Will they be touching themselves in a self-erotic way? 
A: With the amount of teasing that went on at our last party, almost every guy was parading about with a full erection at one time or another, much to the viewing delight of the women. So yes, you can expect to see erections...and for that matter, some of the contests and events involve erections (see below). As it pertains to the guys relieving their sexual frustration as the women watch, again, we will leave it to the women as to what they desire. So far the majority of women are in favor of observing the men perform auto-erotic acts, provided it is done in a sensuous, sharing way that is not overbearing on the theme (and there is a history of such performances at our parties).  
But keep in mind that most men will be too inhibited absent a lot of encouragement from the women...so again, the tone will be set by the gals. And if it is the collective desire of the females present is to watch the men perform such acts, we will expect for the men, in the spirit of putting the women's enjoyment first, to accommodate the women and allow them such viewing pleasures.
Q: Can I touch the guys?
A: Of course! As long as the guys and gals are enjoying themselves, women may touch, pinch, fondle, grab, grope, massage, stroke, the guys anytime and anywhere on their bodies. However, the men are not allowed to touch the women without them prior granting of such permission, and the women must always keep their clothes on.

Q: What type of games/contests will be played?
A: Best buns, best chest, largest erection and biggest balls contests, a ring toss contest, "Guess who's attached to that?" and a "Minute Man" contest in which the guys are teased by female contestants. We also welcome more idea and suggestions.

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