Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Taking a year off from writing for ‘Predominant’

I’ve informed the e-zine ‘Predominant’ that I will not be writing any movie reviews for 2013. However I left the door open for a return in the future.

I have also asked for, and I’m happy to say been granted, permission to post some of my past movie reviews here in my blog. I’ll throw some in from time to time.
‘Predominant’ didn’t take up too much of my time (although more than you’d think with having to research femdom themed movies, obtaining them, watching them -- usually multiple times -- and finally writing about them). But one less thing on my plate frees me up to pursue other interests.

Sunday, December 16, 2012

Update on Her Majesty’s Treasury

I received an e-mail from a wife asking how things have been going since I implemented Her Majesty’s Treasury. She wants to do the same thing starting January 2013 in her marriage. I haven’t written much about this because it has become routine for us but I must say I highly recommend it.

Last January I had my hubby set-up through his place of employment for his paycheck to be direct deposited into an account that is only accessible by me. I now have him on a strict allowance and when he needs extra funds, he must come to his Queen and make a formal request. I either approve or decline his request. Sometimes a denial is also met with a punishment for wasting my time.
Now I must be perfectly honest here. Not all requests turn into a D&S session. Not all involve him humbling himself before me as I sit on my throne (a chair in my bedroom). Sometimes we do this but you will find in the reality of life that it is not practical as I am a busy woman. However, the spirit of Her Majesty’s Treasury is always at work. James must live off of his allowance while I am free to spend as I please. And if he needs additional funds, he must come to me and get my permission.
I would say that this area was the hardest on my hubby than anything else we have done. James was accustomed to being in control of his finances since he moved out of his parent’s house at the age of nineteen. It is very difficult for a forty-something man to be placed on an allowance, and a strict allowance at that. But he has adapted and just like with cuckolding, it is now second-hand for him.
For my part I love having control over our finances. I should point out that we saved more money in 2012 than we have at any other time in recent memory. James was afraid that I would bankrupt us once I was in charge of all the finances but I think he has been amazed at my stewardship of “my” finances. James works for me and now he knows he can surrender all to me and trust me.
Oh, don’t get me wrong. I still splurge but now I use what James once wasted on work week lunches and unnecessary purchases to pamper myself with facials, spa days, haircuts, manicures and pedicures. Before I used what I had earned for those but now hubby packs his lunch for work and he has made other financial sacrifices so I can be pampered. The result is that I am able to save more of what we both earn. My lifestyle hasn’t changed a bit but his lifestyle has changed significantly now that he is on an allowance. Which is how it should be in a femdom marriage.

Friday, December 7, 2012

Christmas shopping for S&M gifts for Hubby

I’ve been doing some on-line browsing for possible gifts for hubby and I am intrigued by the possibilities that are out there.  

2012 has been a kind of breakthrough year for us what with the construction of the confinement room and exploring hubby’s closet masochism. I want to build upon that in 2013 so I feel his Christmas gifts should be a reflection of that.
The first item of interest I came across was a Kali’s Teeth Chastity Device off the JT Stockroom site. Years ago we bought a chastity device from ClubFEM that had plastic spikes which made it uncomfortable when the male attempted to get an erection. James hated this device but I kind of liked forcing him to put it on and then inducing an erection out of him by a prolonged tease and denial session. As you can see from this link

http://www.stockroom.com/Kalis-Teeth-Chastity-Device---Advanced-P3260.aspx

the Kali’s Teeth is much more severe than the one we had. It is not for the faint of heart. Dare I get it? I am tempted. My, what fun I could have with such a device during a tease and denial session. Or better yet, putting the Kali’s Teeth on James, locking him in the confinement room and forcing him to listen over the intercom to me being pleasured by one of my lovers. Can you just image him starting to become aroused as he hears me in ecstasy but the spikes punish him for daring to grow an erection without my permission?
If I don’t want to go that severe, there is this device called Mike’s Spikes,

http://www.stockroom.com/Mikes-Spikes-R-P4679.aspx,

I love that the depth of the spikes are adjustable. I would probably get both the blunt spikes and the extra sharp spikes. I suppose I could start out his training/punishment with the blunt ones and work him up to the extra sharp ones.
Another device that intrigues me is The Nut Crusher

http://www.stockroom.com/The-Nut-Crusher-P4649.aspx

I’ll have to research the safety of this device but I love the idea of placing hubby in bondage and then as they say “watching him squirm” as I tighten the device.
Other items I like on this site are the locking ball gag with dildo attachment ring, the prisoner belt and the leather arm binders (the belt and binders would be perfect for placing hubby in bondage within the confinement room).
Then over on the demask website,

http://www.demask.com/dynamic/sitemap.asp?Language=en,

there are some bondage hoods and very nasty gags that are enticing. I also love the studded strap-on harness. And my, what I couldn't do with some of the bizarre equipment they sell. The enema equipment alone makes the mind run wild with ideas.
So many possibilities but a limited budget so I can’t get everything I want. I would also like to get a new leather outfit. I would love to get a leather dress. We’ll see.
I got James a straightjacket on our anniversary so I guess I can pass on the prisoner belt and the arm binders for now. What do you think? If I can only get one item for hubby, what should it be, the Kali’s Teeth? Mike’s Spikes? Or how about the Nut Crusher? Or what about an item they sell on the DeMask site? Suggestions are welcomed but I need to decide soon.

Sunday, December 2, 2012

The price of admission to subspace

Now and again I marvel at my hubby’s submission. Where does he go in that brain of his when he drifts off into subspace? Is it a mental trip or perhaps a spiritual trip? It can be quite perplexing but it gives me personal satisfaction to know I can take him to his “happy place”.

Last night was one of those times. It was spank night. I felt he needed a maintenance spanking. He’s been a very good boy lately, doing his chores and obeying me but no matter how loving and cooperative he’s been, he still needs his maintenance discipline sessions else it is inevitable he will begin to backslide. Besides, I was in the mood to spank him last night. I’m not really sure why I wanted to spank him but it’s just like sex, the mood strikes and there is really no need to analyze it. When the mood strikes I have an urge that needs to be satisfied, an itch that needs to be scratched. Last night I had the urge to redden my hubby’s bottom.
I decided to make it special for him. I put on a leather bra and thong set, a pair of leather gauntlet gloves and my long leather skirt. I also wore calve high boots. I allowed him to remove his chastity device because I wanted him to lie across my lap so he could feel the leather from my skirt against his cock.
But before he took his place across my lap, I allowed him to worship my boots and my skirt. He was of course naked and he licked the leather on my boots and he sucked the 3 inch heels. When he worked his way up to my skirt, I bent over, placing the palms of my hands on the bed, which pushed my ass upward to give him easy access. He licked the leather skirt that had framed my big, round ass. Hubby kissed and licked and licked and kissed the leather, which tickled and gave me goose bumps.
I then told him to put his hands to his side and rub his cock up and down against my leather covered ass. I forbade him from touching me with his hands because the temptation would have been there for him to grab my hips with me bent over like that and that is a dominant position for a man, thus I kept him in a submissive posture by having him keep his hands to his side while he humped my skirt like a dog would hump a leg. Hubby was getting very excited feeling the leather against his cock and he dripped pre-cum on my skirt. He knew to pull away if he neared orgasm. Once he pulled away, I ordered him to lick the pre-cum off my leather clad ass.
Now it was time for his spanking. I had him go to my toy chest and select a paddle. He chose a leather paddle with a long handle. He chose wisely because I like using this paddle during an over-the-knee spanking. The handle makes it easy to control the severity of each blow.
After he handed me the paddle, hubby crawled over my lap, placing his erect cock against the leather skirt. I warmed him up with my glove hands until his buttocks began to turn a little pink. Then I took the paddle and began to administer a firm spanking, rotating from cheek to cheek. I dished out what I thought was a rather harsh spanking but when I stopped and began to soothe his reddened bottom by caressing it with my gloved hands, hubby asked me “not to stop”. He had drifted off into his happy place and he wanted more.
I inquired how he wanted me to continue, did he want light and sensual or hard and fast? He chose hard and fast. Naturally I obliged and I began to blister his ass with the leather paddle. Hubby was off into some other sphere, and although his muscles were quivering from the pain, he didn’t utter a word, other than giving out sighs of contentment. I have no idea what was going through his mind as I blistered his ass but I continued. Finally I had to stop. I didn’t want to injure the poor baby. His ass was turning purple in a few spots. One of us had to stay grounded in reality and lucky for him I know when to stop, even if he wants me to keep going.
I took off my gloves and felt the heat rising from his blistered bottom. That always turns me on. I got up and removed my skirt to reveal my leather thong. I had hubby lie on the bed and I straddled his face and allowed him to lick my thong. He loves to lick leather that is tight against my pussy. He performed long and lustful licks and by now I was very wet.
I removed the thong and allowed him to eat pussy. I was still straddling his face but I can feel his tongue best when I am on my back and he is between my legs. Therefore, I ordered him to assume that position. It didn’t take very long at all before I climaxed. I held his head there until I had another. Wow, was it ever intense.
Hubby was so excited and it had been a long time since I allowed him an orgasm. I knew by the way he was dripping pre-cum that his body needed relief. Therefore I ordered him to masturbate in front of me, maintaining eye contact with me the entire time and to only cum on my command. I made him suffer for a few minutes before I ordered, “Do it, James, do it NOW!” He exploded and collapsed on to the bed. His orgasm snapped him back to reality and he commented on how his ass was throbbing. I think he was shocked when he saw my handiwork in the mirror. Oh well, he asked for it. That’s the price of admission for entry into his happy place. Submissive men are indeed unusual creatures.

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Leather Pants Smother

Not much to report lately. I hope you all had a nice Thanksgiving. We had a very traditional Holiday spent mostly with family. I did the cooking (I like to cook Holiday meals) and hubby did everything else from the cleaning of the house to cleaning all the dirty dishes.

Saturday night we played a little. We went to dinner and the movies and saw the new James Bond flick (I loved it). I wore a pair of tight leather pants which really turned James on (my hubby, not James Bond but my how I would love to dominate Daniel Craig, what a body). When we got home I could tell hubby was in the mood to be dominated. Seeing me in my leather pants all night was driving him wild.
 
 
I had him lie face up on the couch and I sat on his face, still wearing my leather pants. I ordered him to lick and hubby lost himself in the taste and the aroma of the leather. I smothered him for as long as he could take, allowing him to come up for air when needed but my, was he ever passionate. I do believe he could have stayed under my leather clad ass all night.
I was getting very turned on so we retired to the bedroom where I removed the pants and had hubby orally pleasure me. It was the perfect cap to a wonderful night.

Saturday, November 3, 2012

8 years of Femdom movie reviews

Here are the films I reviewed for Predominant over the past 8 years. I do not want to re-post my reviews in my blog but if there is a film that you are interested in, feel free to write me and I'll be glad to send you my review for the film.


Rating: 5 out of 5 stars
 

The Graduate (1967)

Portrait of a Dominatrix (1999)

Ed Wood (1994)

Sunset Boulevard (1950)

Female (1933)

The Blue Angel (1930)

Love Me Like You Hate Me (2010) 

 

Rating: 4 out of 5 stars
 

Fetishes (1997)

Maitresse (1976)

The Choirboys (1977)

Red Shoe Diaries 6: How I Met My Husband (1995)

Preaching to the Perverted (1997)

Fashionistas (The Vegas Show)

Belle de Jour (1967)

The Notorious Bettie Page (2006)

Bitter Moon (1992)

Die Flambierte Frau (1983)

Holy Smoke (1999)

Love and Human Remains (1993)

Jess Franco's Venus in Furs (1969)

Tabloid (2011)

Massimo Dallamano’s Venus in Furs (1969)

 

Rating: 3 out of 5 stars
 

Venus in Furs (1994)

Gorgeous Glamorous Goddesses

Myra Breckinridge (1970)

Zumanity (The Vegas Show)

Faster Pussy Cat! Kill! Kill! (1965)

The Book of Revelation (2006)

Satan in High Heels (1962)

Punish Me (2006)

New Love in Tokyo (1994)

My Tutor (1983)

The Million Eyes Of Su-Muru (1967)

The Balcony (1963)

Audition (1999)

Real Men (1987)

Joseph Marzano's Venus in Furs (1967)

 

Rating: 2.5 out of 5 stars
 

Psychopathia Sexualis (2006)

The Dominant Stepmother (2008)

Walk All Over Me (2007)

Cuckold Husband (2010)

 

Rating: 2 out of 5 stars
 

Seduction: The Cruel Woman (1985)

Exit to Eden (1995)

Going Under (2004)

The Libertine (1968)

The Cool Surface (1993)

Masoch (1980)

 

Rating: 1 out of 5 stars
 

Didn’t Do It For Love (1997)

Ilsa: She Wolf of the SS (1975)