Directed
by: Luis Buñuel
Starring:
Catherine Deneuve
Jean
Sorel
Michel
Piccoli
Geneviève
Page
Pierre
Clémenti
Released:
1967
Running
time: 101 minutes
“Belle de Jour” has been
hailed as an erotic classic by many film critics the world over. This 1967 French
foreign film (viewed with English subtitles) tells the story of a beautiful
young woman named Severine, who is married to a handsome doctor. She loves her
husband dearly but she denies him sex because she cannot bring herself to be
physically intimate with him. Instead, she indulges in kinky and erotic
fantasies within her mind and her dreams in order to fulfill her sexual
desires. To Severine, vanilla sex with her husband just doesn’t do it for her.
Yet, it is Severine’s
purity and sophistication that men, such as her husband, find to be attractive.
She gives off the external persona of a woman who is wholesome, traditional and
prudish. However, she possesses a sexuality that longs for untraditional and
kinky sexual experiences, in particular sex that involves fetishes and D&S
where she is submissive.
The name Severine is the
female version of the male name Severin, the male masochist in the book “Venus
in Furs”. Like Severin in “Venus in Furs”, Severine is a masochist, although
only within her fantasies. “Belle de Jour” opens with a fantasy sequence where
Severine is riding in a horse drawn carriage with her husband and they stop in
the middle of nowhere and her husband has the two coachmen drag Severine
forcefully out of the carriage and they tie her to a tree and whip her with the
buggy whips.
Then the one coachman has his way with her sexually while her husband watches. Severine wakes up from her fantasy dream and returns to her normal, vanilla life of being a housewife to a doctor.
Then the one coachman has his way with her sexually while her husband watches. Severine wakes up from her fantasy dream and returns to her normal, vanilla life of being a housewife to a doctor.
In real life, Severine
and her husband, Pierre, sleep in separate beds because she cannot bring
herself to be intimate with him. He is understanding and believes she is just a
“good girl” who needs time to become comfortable with him before she can engage
in sex. Being the wife of a doctor, Severine lives the good life. They are
members of the county club, they live in a nice home and she wears expensive
clothing.
Severine is obviously
bored and when she hears the gossip that one of the women at the country club lives
a double life by working at a “whorehouse”, she becomes obsessed with the
thrill of what it must be like to live such a double life.
Severine asks questions
and in her search for information, Severine learns of exclusive Paris brothels
where housewives sometimes work in the afternoons, making extra money while
their husbands are at the office. Henri, a friend of Pierre, is a sex-crazed
male who desires Severine and who frequents Paris brothels. When he hears
Severine asking questions about whorehouses, he gives her the address of an
exclusive brothel ran by a business woman by the name of Madame Anais. Severine
is now overcome with the temptation to visit Madame Anais’ brothel.
Watching Severine’s obsession and temptation with secret double lives and the sexual world of brothels reminded me of some of the men I have talked with about their journey into the world of female domination, and to a lesser extent my own personal journey. When a submissive male first learns about the Dominatrix, he becomes curious and fascinated, perhaps to the place that it consumes his thoughts and dominates his fantasies. He wonders what it would be like to visit such a place, to actually session with a Dominatrix.
One of my phone clients
told me how he would frequent Adult bookstores hoping to find the latest issue
of “DDI” (Dominant Directory International), then he would obsess over the ads
of the leather clad Mistresses with whips for weeks, finally gaining the nerve
to contact a professional Dominatrix. He eventually made an appointment, gained the
address, and drove past her place multiple times prior to the day of his actual
appointment, struggling with the internal battle over whether or not to
follow-through with the appointment, only to find that the desire to be dominated
was too strong to resist.
Any male who has had
that kind of experience can relate to Severine as she locates the address of
Madame Anais’ brothel. She walks up to the front door, only to walk away. Then
the next time she goes into the building and locates the apartment number, only
to again lose her nerve. Then finally, she gains the nerve to ring the buzzer
and introduces herself to Madame Anais. Once she takes that step, she finds
herself living the double life she has been fantasizing about.
Madame Anais gives her
the pseudo name, Belle de Jour, meaning 'Beauty of the Day', since Severine can
only work between the hours of 2pm and 5pm because she must be home before her
husband returns. Severine works with two other women, Charlotte and Renee.
Most of Severine’s
fantasies revolve around her being submissive. She likes it when a client
handles her a little rough. The brothel allows some of her fantasies to become
reality. Nevertheless, she also discovers that fantasies are at times best when
they only exist in the arena of the mind. For example, she has the fantasy of
wanting to be bound and whipped. However, when a young, male client, Marcel
(who is a gangster) becomes too attached to Belle de Jour, he gets angry when
she is away for a couple of weeks while on vacation with her husband. When she
returns to the brothel, Marcel comes by and he attempts to beat her with his
belt. After only one strike, Severine stands up to him and forbids him to ever
hit her again. Marcel backs down. Severine realizes that she in fact does
not want to be whipped by a man. She loves the fantasy but not the reality.
Severine is indeed a
strong woman, even though she has masochistic fantasies. She totally controls
her husband, denying him sex while she has sexual flings in the afternoon at
the brothel. Her husband is handsome, successful and intelligent but he is weak
when compared to Severine.
The tragic and near
fatal ending for Pierre is the result of Severine’s secret life. Marcel shoots
him in a jealous rage and Pierre is confined to a wheelchair, relying on
Severine to take care of him. That is the moral warning of the film, that one's
actions can negatively affect not only your life, but also the life of those
you love the most. That is an important message and not exclusive to the women
who work at brothels. The man who frequents a brothel is also putting his wife
at risk if he were to contract a disease.
The one FemDom scene in
the movie involves a male client, a professor, who wants to role-play that he
is the servant to a dominant woman. Severine fails to understand what he wants
so Madame Anais has her watch through a peep hole as Charlotte fulfills the
professor’s fantasy by humiliating him about not keeping a clean enough house,
trampling him with her shoes and whipping him. Charlotte makes the
comment to Severine that she wishes all clients were like the professor,
implying that she enjoys being in the dominant role.
It has been said that Director Luis Bunuel had a fetish for women’s shoes and feet, often showing close-ups of women in high heel shoes. Perhaps the scene where Charlotte is dominating the professor was Bunuel’s way of expressing his own fetish within “Belle de Jour”.
As a dominant woman, I
could not relate to Severine’s submissive fantasies, but I could relate to her
desire to live a double life. Having been the Head Mistress of a ClubFEM group and
being active in the FemDom lifestyle within my own marriage, I kind of live a
double life. I am fortunate that my husband is a part of my double life but my
family and friends have no idea about my female domination lifestyle and I
still have fantasies that I have not even shared with my husband. He may one day be
the object of some of those fantasies, but then again, maybe not. Just like
Severine, many of my fantasies do not involve my husband.
I have never worked at a
brothel, nor would I, but I have experienced the thrill of being a professional
Dominatrix on a few occasions. It is exciting to live a secret life, a life the
people who know you the best would never guess in a million years. The key to a
secret life is that you don't venture too far into the deep that you cannot
safely return to the secure ground of your regular life.
“Belle de Jour” is not
about female domination per se, but it is about fetishes, secret desires, and
the sexual fantasies of wives.
Rating: 4 out of 5 stars
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