The cuckold scale

In her article “Commentary on the Cuckold Husband”, Diane Marie had the following insightful observations;

“Perhaps it's best to start out with a definition of the word cuckold. As defined in the dictionary ‘A man married to an unfaithful wife.’ Simple enough, the guy's wife cheats. Many men fit this category, as it may surprise you how many wives actually have cheated at least once. But cuckold has come to mean something more. It has come to mean men who want their wives to be unfaithful. That does bring up the question of what is unfaithful, namely is a woman who has sexual relations with other men with the total approval of her husband being unfaithful? I'm sure this could be debated but I think not. Being unfaithful, would to most people, be cheating, having approval is not cheating.

I think we need to redefine cuckold to mean any husband who wants his wife to have sexual relationships with other men. I further propose that we refine the definition to mean a husband who desires, lusts and is at least somewhat obsessed with the idea.

I propose we define cuckold to mean a husband who desires his wife to humiliate him by having sexual relationships with other men. Of course there should also be a degree system involved in the definition. Cuckold 1, cuckold 2, cuckold 3, so on and so forth. This system would be set up by how submissive or willing to be humiliated the husband is to his wife in order to fulfill his lustful desires. Cuckold 10 being a husband willing to put up with any humiliation in order to watch his wife enjoy her lovers.

I kind like my system, don't you? Cuckold 1 would be the man who's willing to allow his wife the pleasure of a male-female-male threesome but he's doing it for both of them. She'd like the experience and he'd like the thrill of watching. Nothing wrong with that, they both get something out of it.

Cuckold 10 would be the other extreme. The husband is completely obsessed with the idea of his wife being with other men. She finally consents, at first to please him but finding she loves being with other men, she now continues for her own pleasure. It's not long before she realizes her husband will do just about anything to watch or even hear about her experiences. Just think of the advantages her life now takes on. He'll clean the house, watch the kids, do the laundry, shop for the groceries, tend the garden when she doesn't feel like it, and so much more. I'm sure he'd even procure lovers for her, if she so desired. I could list pages and pages of things I could think for him to do. If she's a bit on the kinky side, liking the sub/dom thing, wow, my mind is overwhelmed by the possibilities. Even if she fell out of love with him, he's a keeper, what a life of leisure she could have. Need some extra money for a vacation with your current lover, send him out to work at night, but only after he's found someone to keep her warm and comfy while he's working. Oh my god, why did I not think of this when I had the opportunity to make it a reality?”