Hubby closing in on two month denial mark

As I mentioned in my last non-movie review entry back on March 9th, we’ve settled into a more domestic-oriented femdom lifestyle as of late. James has been serving me domestically and sexually (massages, oral servitude) while he has remained denied, wearing his CB6000 a goodly portion of the time around the house. To be honest with you, I don’t really keep track of his orgasms. They are rare and under my supervision but I had no idea it had been so long since his last one until the other night when he came to me and begged me for relief.

James confessed to me that he has been having lots of femdom dreams lately and that it is taking him longer and longer for his balls to subside from a swollen state whenever he becomes aroused. So I inquired “how long has it been since I last allowed you an orgasm?” He replied, “January 31”.

Wow, has it really been that long? I figured it had to be approaching a month but I had no idea it’s been almost two months. James remembers it well. It was during that stint in late January when we were “playing” almost nightly. On January 31, we did another face sitting session and I had been teasing and denying him for days so I knew he had to be on edge sexually. Therefore, after I had been sexually satisfied that night, I allowed him to masturbate in front of me.

A lot has happened since January 31 so I must say that I am very proud of my hubby for holding off this long and not begging me for relief sooner than this. Of course he likes being denied. He loves the feeling of being aroused and under my control. However, two months is a long time. I remember about ten years ago I tried to deny him for longer than a month but he had a wet dream and climaxed in his sleep. I can usually tell when James needs relief as he becomes cranky. But the older he gets, he is able to go longer times between orgasms with less and less biological or mental challenges.

Anywho, he came to be the other night and begged me for relief. I was about to order him to masturbate in front of me when it hit me that we only have a few days left in the month. I realize February was a short month but nonetheless, if he can hold off until March 31, it will have been two full months, even if it isn’t technically 60 days. So to my hubby’s dismay, I have ordered him to wear his chastity device until March 31 when I will more than likely allow him relief. And to celebrate my decision to make him wait a few more days (and to add to his frustration) I had James orally pleasure my body. He came to me begging for relief and I was the one who got the orgasm. Seems only fair, don’t you think?

Later that night as I was lying in bed thinking about it, I got to contemplating how many orgasms had I had since my hubby’s last one back on January 31? I’ve been with Thomas at least a half dozen times since then and I have had James orally service me at least twice a week and some weeks more than that. Then there was Valentine’s Day and all that went on with that. There were all those long, cold winter nights where we played. And there have been numerous discipline sessions with James that ended with me being pleasured.

I’ll be conservative and round it off to an average of three times a week. Then add in all the times I had multiple orgasms, let’s round it off to an average of five orgasms per week over the past 8 weeks. That means I will have had at least 40 orgasms since my hubby last had one. That is why I could never be a submissive. But my hubby loves it and he wouldn’t trade his place in this marriage for all the orgasms in the world. 40 to 1 ratio! Like I said, seems fair to me.