Monday, April 21, 2014

A tour of Kathleen’s toy box

As promised in an earlier post, I finally had some free time this weekend to take some photos of what’s in my toy box. Granted this isn’t everything and I have other stuff stored down in the confinement room but this will give you some idea of the things I’ve collected over the years. I would say my collection began in 2000 but the majority of it was bought (or donated by male admirers) between 2002 and 2007. And in recent years I have added a few new items. So let’s get started.
Here is my toy chest full of goodies


Inside my toy box is some of my arsenal of discipline implements (yes, I have had sessions with James where I have used each and every item in a single session)
There are riding crops and wooden canes
Paddles and a nasty leather strap
Tawse and slapper

Penis whip and ball punisher and a soft fleece glove to soothe sore bottoms


And of course my floggers. The one on the top is nasty and leaves welts but the other two are soft warm-up floggers. Notice the craftsmanship of the handles on the soft floggers.


Then there are my leather clothes.


I have leather thongs, leather bras, leather corsets, leather halter tops, leather pants, leather shorts, leather skirts, leather gloves, leather boots and other accessories.


And this is just what I have in my toy box. I have other leather clothes in my closet, pants, shorts, a leather jacket and my leather trench coat.


I have some clothes hanging in the confinement room for the winter. Most of my PVC stuff is down there, like my PVC boots and gloves along with other leather items.


Now to the fun stuff. Here are some unique items in my toy box that I use to punish/dominate/torture my willing hubby. Here is a pair of thumb cuffs. These are more diabolical than handcuffs. Imagine being bound with your thumbs locked together to some object. It can be quite painful if you flinch or jerk from a whipping or some other discipline.


How about these Vampire gloves? They have wicked prickly pins in the fingers. I’ve given James a hand job with these bad boys and it did draw blood. But mostly I just spank his bottom with them. They leave quite an impression, both figuratively and physically.


Then there are my strap-on harnesses and dildos.


Gags and blindfolds for hubby.


Enema equipment (I have more in the confinement room).


Nipple clamps (I wrote about these in a previous post)


I have various cuffs (ankle and wrist for hubby) but here is a pair of thigh cuffs and a slave collar. I like to put the collar on hubby and the thigh cuffs on me. Then I lock the rings on his collar to the rings on my cuffs and his head is trapped at my pussy (or my ass) and he is helpless until I am totally satisfied. It’s been a while since we’ve used these. I think that will be our next session.


Here are some more toys. I love to tease with the feather duster and spank with a hairbrush and you can never have enough rope. And those clothes pins connected to a pull-ring, I place the pins all over his cock and balls and then with a sudden pull, they come off very quickly. James hates this one. Oh, and I’ve discussed in the past how an eye-dropper can be fun during an intense tease and deny session. Having a man on the edge and dripping warm water on his cock and balls is my version of water torture.


I also have some c/b bondage devices. I even found our old CB2000, the one that started it all.


And there are some other odds and ends items in my toy box, like stockings for me and panties for James. Some of these packs of stockings have never even been open. They were purchased many years ago at the Outer Skin outside of Pittsburgh.


The panties are old ones that I use to wear but now hubby wears them when he does his chores. I also like to take a pair of these panties when I am with a lover and I will make sure me and my lover leave a little present on them as we will use them to wipe ourselves after sex. Then on my return home I might make James wear them or if I am really feeling extra cruel, I might stuff them in his mouth during a session.

Finally, there are some other sexy clothes in my toy chest that are not fetish.
Those that remember reading my story about the first time James and I visited a Dominatrix might recall that I didn’t own any fetish wear at the time. So I wore this sexy thing and Morgan said I was stunning. I was practically hanging out of the darn thing but it did show off major cleavage, that’s for sure.


That’s all for now! I have other things, like my Delrin canes and spiked mats and other whips and paddles that are down in the confinement room. But this was a tour of my toy box. I hope you enjoyed. Feel free to give me some feedback, after all this took a lot of effort on my part.

Saturday, April 19, 2014

Tease and Deny with a (somewhat) happy ending

Last night was the first chance I’ve had to play with hubby since I got back from Vegas. I must not have gotten enough sleep when I was in Vegas because I’ve been very tired since I got home. The three hour time change and going back to work on Monday didn’t leave me enough time to catch up on my sleep. But thankfully I was off for Good Friday and I was able to sleep in. So last night I decided it was time for hubby’s promised tease and deny session.
The confinement room is almost warm enough for us to use again but not quite there yet. Therefore, I decided to use the massage table again as a bondage table. Those who have been reading my blog know the drill. I tie James’ wrist and ankle cuffs to the legs of the table and I use a roll of Saran Wrap to place him in restrictive bondage. He is lying face up and I wrap his entire body to the table except for his face and his genitals. I removed his chastity device.  
By the way, on a side note, I tried to use the DL 2000 when I was in Vegas, using my i-phone and my tablet to send “love pulses” to James through the DL 2000 device. It didn’t work for some reason. We’ve been having some technical problems with the device so I might have to schedule a trip to see Ginger and her hubby again. Ginger’s hubby is somewhat of an expert on the DL 2000. This is not indictment on the product because you must remember it was a used DL 2000 when I got it as a gift from Ginger. It’s had a lot of wear and tear from Ginger and her hubby and we’ve been using it a good bit as well. Hopefully it will be an easy fix.
Getting back to the tease and deny session, once I had hubby bound, I left the room and changed into black leather bra and leather thong with knee high black leather boots. Using the Hitachi Magic Wand vibrator, I tormented hubby’s body, giving him a little pleasure as I ran the vibrator on low against his balls, occasionally running it lightly against his shaft, and pinching and biting his nipples. All the while I shared with hubby some of the salacious details of my Vegas trip with Derik. Of course I gave him the juicy details of my trip to a Gentlemen’s Club but ever better than that, I shared how Derik made love to me countless times, how much I enjoyed his body and his very large cock. I had hubby whimpering and cooing in no time.
This only went on for between fifteen to twenty minutes before James’ cock was quivering and pulsating with every beat of his heart. It had been 49 days since his last orgasm, a mere 11 days short of two months, and since he was such a good husband doing all the chores I assigned him when I was away on my trip, I decided to allow him an orgasm, if he could have it with very little stimulation.
Using the vibrator against his balls and just a tad little bit against his lower shaft (nowhere near his sweet spot) I did a little sensual verbal humiliation (which drives James wild with passion). I humiliated him about being such a pussy-whipped husband that he allows, and more importantly consents to his wife taking trips with other men while he stays home and does a long list of chores that she assigns him. I teased him “What kind of a man does that, James? What would your family, friends and co-workers think if they knew?”
It didn’t take very long of this kind of talk. James’ cock started pulsating fast and I could sense it coming, so I turned off the vibrator and stood back and watched. James had a ruined orgasm as he climaxed with nothing or no one touching him at the moment of climax. He let out a yell from the intensity. He shot his load way up in the air and all over his Saran Wrap covered chest, some of it landing on his shoulders and the edge of the table. As soon as he was done climaxing, I slapped his balls in a series of quick pats with the palm of my hand, which caused him to gasp.
After I wiped him off with a towel, I freed him from his bondage and took him to my bedroom where he worshipped my body. I allowed him to lick my leather thong (I love that sensation) before I removed it and had him orally pleasure me. James was totally full of passion and sexual energy. His orgasm did not drain him of that one iota. I guess because it was a ruined orgasm, which was more torture than pleasure. After I was sexually satisfied, I ordered James to take a cold shower and to reinstall his chastity device.
Usually if I give him a ruined orgasm, I will allow him one more orgasm to totally clean out his pipes. But I’ve received some feedback from others that say that isn’t necessary and I’m being too kind-hearted toward James. So I figure I will experiment. This time I am putting him back in chastity without a second orgasm to see how he does.