Thursday, August 6, 2015

A long awaited update

A number of you have asked for an update on my life. I took a break from femdom over the winter months. I don’t think I had a session with James in January, February or March. I get that way. I go full throttle with things and then I have burnout. However, we began playing again in April because I missed the intimacy with him and we just don’t click doing vanilla. Our sessions have been excellent since April. We use the massage table which we turn into a bondage table and we have had some intense discipline sessions, bondage, tease and denial, boot worship and strap-on play.  

Probably my favorite session was last month when I took a roll of blue medical adhesive bandage tape and wrapped his penis and the base of his balls tightly with it, leaving only the mushroom head of his penis uncovered. I made him take a Viagra an hour prior to this session so he had a stiff erection. Then I worked a large condom over his penis and the bandage. I tied him to my bed and I used him as my sex toy for an hour to 90 minutes straight. Due to the bandage tape and condom, James could fell no pleasure. In fact, it actually was a bit painful for him as I rode his penis. I kept rotating back and forth, riding his cock for a while and then sitting on his face and having him lick me. Back and forth I went from his cock to his face. I had multiple orgasms while he was feeling no pleasure at all.  

He had been denied for about a month and since he took a Viagra, which he rarely does, I decided to take pity on him but it would have to be a ruined orgasm. So I tied him face up on the massage table, I carefully removed the condom and took our Hitachi double head vibrator and ran it against his very full and swollen balls and the exposed head of his cock which was a nice shade of purple. I rotated back and forth between the tip of the head and his balls until his cock pulsated wildly. I immediately removed the vibrator and he came, shooting his load way up in the air and all over his chest and stomach. His facial expression and the sounds he was making told me it was a most painful and frustrating orgasm. He begged me to touch him, to bring him to a more complete orgasm, but of course I denied his request. I then cut the bandage off his erection. It was quite intense for him as I un-wrapped his penis, his skin sticking to the adhesive tape. Then it was off to a cold shower so he would lose his erection in order to reinstall his chastity device. When using Viagra, it made for a most agonizing next morning as he awoke with an erection that was rebuffed by the chastity cage. The drug stayed in his system for around 12 hours or so, which made it fun for me as I teased him frequently throughout the day.  

It’s been a fun summer. We saw the Rolling Stones in Pittsburgh in June and Billy Joel in Baltimore in July. We’ve been having a session about once a week. It’s just me and James right now, no cuckolding and I like it that way for now. You never know what the future holds but for the time being I am enjoying keeping our lifestyle just between me and hubby.