Some who find this blog might recognize me from my past FemDom life. I was a phone Mistress for five years and I dabbled a bit in the world of professional Domination. I was also active in a FemDom group for the better part of three years. And I wrote a column for a FemDom e-zine.
Monday, June 23, 2014
Hubby’s denial period ends with game of discipline
Saturday night I decided
to allow hubby sexual release since he had been denied since April 18 and was
on the verge of going stark raving mad. This past week he has shown all the
signs of reaching his body’s limit: irritable, moody, leaking pre-cum, severe
case of blue balls, discomfort. So I knew it was time but I had a busy week
therefore hubby had to wait until Saturday. He survived which just proves a man
can go longer than he thinks he can.
I was searching for a
clever way to give him his release but was coming up empty. I just wasn’t in a
creative mode this past weekend. But as I was skimming through some of my past
blog entries, I came across one from August 2011. It was when hubby and I
played a discipline game that I had found on a video clip. The game goes like
this: I lay out 5 implements of punishment and hubby has to choose the order in
which I use the implements of discipline on him.
The first one he would
receive 20, the next 16, the next 12, the next 8 and the last 4 very hard ones.
We were just getting back into the swing of things in 2011 so those numbers
seemed low to me. Therefore I decided to upgrade the game. The first one he
would receive 30, the next 25, the next 20, the next 10 and the last 5 very
Back in 2011 when we
played this game the 5 implements were a riding crop, a tawse, a leather
strap, a Spencer paddle and a wooden cane. This time I chose: riding crop,
leather paddle, Spencer paddle, Delrin cane (the black one with the wooden
handle) and wooden cane.
As I mentioned last time, having him choose his order of punishment really plays with his
mind. I dressed in leather bra and leather thong (too warm for boots or gloves)
and to get him in the mood I allowed him to lick my leather thong for about 3
minutes and plant kisses on my ass. Then I removed his chastity device and had
him lay face down across my bed. He chose to begin with the leather paddle. I
ordered him to count them out. I must have been hitting him harder than he
expected because he was squirming by the time I reached 30. In fact, he was
squirming so much that I decide to restrain him for the rest of the game. I put
wrist and ankle cuffs on him and tied him to the posts on my bed. I told him
that he could stop the game at any time but if he did, he would not get an
orgasm for two more weeks.
Next he chose the riding
crop and I dished out 25 moderate blows to his reddened ass and the meaty part
of the back of his legs. Hubby twisted his body from the pain but after I was
done with the riding crop he began to slip into subspace. I took my soft fur
glove and soothed his ass for a couple of minutes before continuing with the
James was relaxed from
my mini-massage with the soft glove but the game had to continue. He chose the
Spencer paddle. I decided to go hard and fast with the Spencer paddle.
pretty much snapped James out of subspace as he had difficulty counting them
out. Now his ass had bruises. I teased him,
“This is the price for
an orgasm. I think it’s more than fair, don’t you?”
James next chose the wooden
cane. He dreads the cane, be it wooden or Delrin. I tormented him by taking the
cane and swishing it through the air, letting him anticipate what was about to happen.
I slowly drew back my hand and brought the cane across his ass. James winced
and stiffened his body. He endured 10 of these, although they were moderate. I
was waiting for the last implement to go hard. Still, he had a few welts from
the wooden cane. I gave him a breather, allowing him about 5 minutes to
recover. I took the soft glove and soothed his bottom some more.
Now would come the hard
part. Five final blows with the Delrin cane. I reminded hubby that he could stop
the game but the cost would be no orgasm. He had come this far so I knew he
would endure the final 5.I tapped the
cane on his buttocks, drew it back and let it fly. James gave out a yell before
he composed himself enough to count out “One!”
I teased him, “Four more
if you want that precious orgasm!”
I drew the cane back and
went hard again. “Two”, he screamed. I repeated this three more times and hubby
endured them all. His ass was all marked up with red marks, bruises and some
nasty welts. That fine line between domination and abuse was a little blurred
if you saw his ass. But hey, it was only a game.
Hubby had earned his
orgasm but I was probably more aroused than he was. His cock had gone
completely limp whereas my pussy was very wet. Therefore, after I untied him
from the bed, I had James go down on me before he would be permitted his
orgasm. Licking my pussy brought James’s passion back to life in a hurry. I
made him stay there until he gave me multiple orgasms. James was twisting
again, only this time not from being whipped but he was trying to hold back his
own orgasm as his cock was rubbing against the mattress. I noticed this so I
decided that is how I should end his denial.
“Go ahead, James, you
have my permission. Climax while you’re eating my pussy.”
My words were all it
took. James came all over the edge of the mattress. But he continued to lick me
until I had one final orgasm. When he was done, his cock was still rock hard. He
stood before me, breathing heavy with an erect penis. I was all relaxed from my
orgasms and I figured he had earned another one.
“Go ahead, James, jerk
off for me. Stroke it and cum again.”
I watched and it took
him longer than I expected but I could tell he was on the edge so after a
couple of minutes I gave him assistance by barking out the command, “DO IT!”
And with that, James had his second orgasm in the most primal of male ways,
giving himself a hand job as I was being entertained by this spectacle.
I ordered him to shower,
reinstall the chastity device and to come back and strip the bed and wash the
sheets. It will be another two months before hubby is allowed another orgasm.